Dear Birthmother,
First let us say we cannot imagine what you are going through. Letting go of a child so he or she can be raised by two strangers must be terrifying and at times, heartbreaking.
But what we do know is that your decision to have this child and your bravery in making adoption part of your plan is something we admire very much. We are so grateful to you for the sacrifices you have made and will make to allow a couple the opportunity to be parents.
Adoption is something we have discussed since before we were even married. We love children and it is our dream to become parents above anything else. Our roles as a mother and a father are more important to us than any other roles we play or will play in our lives.
Biology is not important to us or to members of our extended family. What is important, is that wherever our children may come from, they will feel loved beyond belief and will know finding them was no accident. Our children will know we waited and worked hard to be able to make them part of our family.
Even though we don’t know our children yet, we love them already! We believe God may have put this path in front of us because there is a special little someone who really needs to be a part of our lives and we will welcome that child with open arms into a home filled with love, protection and openness.
Thank you for considering us to be the parents of your baby. We hope to learn and understand more about what you might be feeling and going through at this time and we are so excited to meet you!
Love,
Casey and David